{"id":5512,"date":"2020-06-06T13:09:22","date_gmt":"2020-06-06T11:09:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/?p=5512"},"modified":"2020-06-06T13:19:14","modified_gmt":"2020-06-06T11:19:14","slug":"they-listen-to-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/en\/they-listen-to-us\/","title":{"rendered":"They listen to us"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/AdobeStock_178904791-1.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5514\" width=\"238\" height=\"158\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWalter, my fifteen-year-old son, plays hockey and he was not at all happy with his position in rear defence. He was convinced he was an excellent midfielder, a position from which he could create the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I suggested he write to his trainers to share his ideas instead of keeping his frustrations to himself and letting them build up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I nearly fell off my chair when my son asked me to read his rough copy. He told me he had used the DESC model (Description \u2013 Effect \u2013 Solution \u2013 Conclusion) that I had explained to him after a management course last year &#8211; and he had applied it perfectly!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>His trainers thanked him for his frankness, assured him he had talent and began to bring him forward on the field!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Like Malcolm, we often think that what we share with our teenagers has no effect on them but the reality is that they just need a reason to apply it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What about you? Have you seen your children use the tools you passed on to them?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cWalter, my fifteen-year-old son, plays hockey and he was not at all happy with his position in rear defence. He was convinced he was an excellent midfielder, a position from which he could create the attack. I suggested he write to his trainers to share his ideas instead of keeping his frustrations to himself and letting them build up. I nearly fell off my chair when my son asked me to read his rough copy. He told me he had used the DESC model (Description \u2013 Effect \u2013 Solution \u2013 Conclusion) that I had explained to him after a management course last year &#8211; and he had applied it perfectly! His trainers thanked him for his frankness, assured him he had talent and began to bring him forward on the field!\u201d Like Malcolm, we often think that what we share with our teenagers has no effect on them but the reality is that they just need a reason to apply it. What about you? Have you seen your children use the tools you passed on to them?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2289],"tags":[2897,2899,2354,2898,2817],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v16.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/en\/they-listen-to-us\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"They listen to us - Bulles de bonheur\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"\u201cWalter, my fifteen-year-old son, plays hockey and he was not at all happy with his position in rear defence. 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