{"id":4593,"date":"2020-04-08T15:18:40","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T13:18:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/?p=4593"},"modified":"2020-04-08T15:38:11","modified_gmt":"2020-04-08T13:38:11","slug":"big-hugs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/en\/big-hugs\/","title":{"rendered":"Big hugs"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Recently, several people have thanked me for simply being in their lives. In each case I was surprised and a bit embarrassed to hear it, as I don\u2019t have the impression that I am doing anything particulularly special for them. For one of them I am a coach, for the other a friend that listens and for the third I\u2019m a matrimonial advisor. For all of them I\u2019m a distributor of big hugs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The common denominator of everything I do ? I thoroughly enjoy doing it ! I love the fact that somebody feels reassured because I listen without judging. I\u2019m thrilled when someone takes off to new horizons thanks to my coaching. And \u2013 above all – I love offering big hugs to those in my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t feel like any of this is a special effort, I am just being myself. I have stopped worrying about what others might think and simply follow my instinct. I hug people when I have the urge to do so, and I say \u00ab I love you \u00bb when feel it\u2019s the right thing to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s a lovely paradox that when I am not trying to be anything special, and allow myself to simply be \u00ab just myself \u00bb, I end up being very special for those in my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And you? When would it be helpful to follow your instinct, to be more of yourself – and therefore at your best?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Recently, several people have thanked me for simply being in their lives. In each case I was surprised and a bit embarrassed to hear it, as I don\u2019t have the impression that I am doing anything particulularly special for them. For one of them I am a coach, for the other a friend that listens and for the third I\u2019m a matrimonial advisor. For all of them I\u2019m a distributor of big hugs. The common denominator of everything I do ? I thoroughly enjoy doing it ! I love the fact that somebody feels reassured because I listen without judging. I\u2019m thrilled when someone takes off to new horizons thanks to my coaching. And \u2013 above all – I love offering big hugs to those in my life. I don\u2019t feel like any of this is a special effort, I am just being myself. I have stopped worrying about what others might think and simply follow my instinct. I hug people when I have the urge to do so, and I say \u00ab I love you \u00bb when feel it\u2019s the right thing to do. It\u2019s a lovely paradox that when I am not trying to be anything special, and allow myself to simply be \u00ab just myself \u00bb, I end up being very special for those in my life. And you? When would it be helpful to follow your instinct, to be more of yourself – and therefore at your best?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2289],"tags":[2361,2362,2358,2359,2360],"yoast_head":"\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\t\n