{"id":4575,"date":"2020-04-08T15:06:55","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T13:06:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/?p=4575"},"modified":"2020-04-08T15:45:44","modified_gmt":"2020-04-08T13:45:44","slug":"when-in-doubt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/en\/when-in-doubt\/","title":{"rendered":"When in doubt"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I\u2019m driving in Paris, looking for a parking spot. I lose my bearings for a moment, miss the U-turn I should have taken and have to turn right instead\u2026which leads me into a huge traffic jam!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><a href=\"http:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/sign_turn-left-ahead.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/sign_turn-left-ahead.jpg\" alt=\"sign_turn-left-ahead\" class=\"wp-image-3033\" width=\"150\" height=\"149\"\/><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>When I finally arrive &#8211; very late &#8211; for my dinner appointment, I share my tale of traffic woe and one of the people in the group shares her secret recipe for navigating in Paris: \u00ab When in doubt, turn left! \u00bb &#8211; \u2018What nonsense\u2019, I think. \u2018That would have worked this evening, but surely not every time\u2026!?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But since that evening I\u2019ve been applying her rule religiously. Whenever I am not sure of which way to turn, and run the risk of wasting time over a decision when driving, I turn left. Strangely, it works like magic: the chances are still 50\/50 that I get it wrong, but I have taken a decision. Or, another way of saying that, I\u2019m not stuck in indecision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am not afraid of taking a bad decision these days. I just admit I got it wrong and do what I can to fix it. In doing so I have lived based on Mandela\u2019s advice about getting stuck : \u201cYou cannot lose: either you win, or you learn something\u201d. Today, I prefer learning something instead of wasting time in hesitation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And you? Are there some unmade decisions in your life that are keeping you from what awaits you in your future?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m driving in Paris, looking for a parking spot. I lose my bearings for a moment, miss the U-turn I should have taken and have to turn right instead\u2026which leads me into a huge traffic jam! When I finally arrive &#8211; very late &#8211; for my dinner appointment, I share my tale of traffic woe and one of the people in the group shares her secret recipe for navigating in Paris: \u00ab When in doubt, turn left! \u00bb &#8211; \u2018What nonsense\u2019, I think. \u2018That would have worked this evening, but surely not every time\u2026!?\u2019 But since that evening I\u2019ve been applying her rule religiously. Whenever I am not sure of which way to turn, and run the risk of wasting time over a decision when driving, I turn left. Strangely, it works like magic: the chances are still 50\/50 that I get it wrong, but I have taken a decision. Or, another way of saying that, I\u2019m not stuck in indecision. I am not afraid of taking a bad decision these days. I just admit I got it wrong and do what I can to fix it. In doing so I have lived based on Mandela\u2019s advice about getting stuck : \u201cYou cannot lose: either you win, or you learn something\u201d. Today, I prefer learning something instead of wasting time in hesitation. And you? Are there some unmade decisions in your life that are keeping you from what awaits you in your future?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2289],"tags":[2400,2401,2402,2403,2404],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v16.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/en\/when-in-doubt\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"When in doubt - Bulles de bonheur\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"I\u2019m driving in Paris, looking for a parking spot. 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