{"id":4269,"date":"2020-04-05T12:09:25","date_gmt":"2020-04-05T10:09:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/?p=4269"},"modified":"2020-04-08T16:05:48","modified_gmt":"2020-04-08T14:05:48","slug":"altruistic-or-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/en\/altruistic-or-not\/","title":{"rendered":"Altruistic or not?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I am a quick, well-organised person by nature and often finish tasks before other people. That\u2019s nearly always the case when I go horse riding. I groom and prepare my horse energetically without wasting any time. When I turn round, I realise that my friends are lagging behind. So I help them put on a bridle, tighten a girth, clean hooves or untangle a mane. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People thank me profusely for my kindness, when in fact I haven\u2019t done it out of altruism but because I\u2019m impatient to start riding! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don\u2019t think I\u2019m altruistic at all, but if my friends see it that way, does that mean I am, or does the sense of well-being that I get out of it disqualify me from being thought of as such? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s an interesting, but somewhat pointless, debate. Haven\u2019t we all been thanked for actions that originated from a selfish intent? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aren\u2019t the results what count more than anything? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When was the last time that you were selfishly altruistic? <\/p>\n\n\n<p><!--EndFragment--><br>\n<br>\n<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am a quick, well-organised person by nature and often finish tasks before other people. That\u2019s nearly always the case when I go horse riding. I groom and prepare my horse energetically without wasting any time. When I turn round, I realise that my friends are lagging behind. So I help them put on a bridle, tighten a girth, clean hooves or untangle a mane. People thank me profusely for my kindness, when in fact I haven\u2019t done it out of altruism but because I\u2019m impatient to start riding! I don\u2019t think I\u2019m altruistic at all, but if my friends see it that way, does that mean I am, or does the sense of well-being that I get out of it disqualify me from being thought of as such? It\u2019s an interesting, but somewhat pointless, debate. Haven\u2019t we all been thanked for actions that originated from a selfish intent? Aren\u2019t the results what count more than anything? When was the last time that you were selfishly altruistic?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2289],"tags":[2788,2431,2686,2789],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v16.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/en\/altruistic-or-not\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Altruistic or not? - Bulles de bonheur\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"I am a quick, well-organised person by nature and often finish tasks before other people. That\u2019s nearly always the case when I go horse riding. 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