{"id":4124,"date":"2020-03-26T12:12:53","date_gmt":"2020-03-26T11:12:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/?p=4124"},"modified":"2020-04-06T16:50:28","modified_gmt":"2020-04-06T14:50:28","slug":"would-you-like-some-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/en\/would-you-like-some-help\/","title":{"rendered":"Would you like some help?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/bullesbygundula.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/AdobeStock_267282454-1024x683.jpeg\" alt=\"L\u2019attribut alt de cette image est vide, son nom de fichier est AdobeStock_267282454-1024x683.jpeg.\" width=\"176\" height=\"117\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p> There are two types of people who ask me for advice.  <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some want my opinion and a different way of looking at whatever they are concerned about. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The others want me to reinforce and approve the decision they have already made! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now that I know this, I ask all these people straight out, \u201cDo you want my opinion or my approval?\u201d  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This question has caused surprise to several people &#8211; including myself \ud83d\ude42 &#8211; because I know very well how to avoid making a decision by skilfully delegating it to the unsuspecting person I am talking to! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What about you? Are you seeking advice or approval? <\/p>\n\n\n<p><!--EndFragment--><br>\n<br>\n<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are two types of people who ask me for advice. Some want my opinion and a different way of looking at whatever they are concerned about. The others want me to reinforce and approve the decision they have already made! Now that I know this, I ask all these people straight out, \u201cDo you want my opinion or my approval?\u201d This question has caused surprise to several people &#8211; including myself \ud83d\ude42 &#8211; because I know very well how to avoid making a decision by skilfully delegating it to the unsuspecting person I am talking to! What about you? 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